The face of jealousy

Modern jealousy is a complicated emotion that includes emotions like mistrust, fury, fear, and shame. It is seen more in negative light. It affects people of all ages, genders, and sexual orientations and is most frequently sparked when a person feels threatened by a third party in a valued connection. The danger could be actual or hypothetical.

Unwarranted jealousy frequently leads to relationship discontent or unrest, and jealous individuals may act in ways that are illogical or even hazardous.

When looking at the biblical interpretation of the word, jealousy is not a bad or negative word and God himself describes himself as a jealous God. Jealousy from this interpretation is meant in a sense of protection of His people so He can keep them with Him.

If we try to look at a version of Godly jealousy in our daily relationships. When a healthy relationship experiences jealousy, it comes from a place of protection. One person sees a potential threat to the relationship and expresses concern or jealousy. Together, the couple discusses the issue rationally and comes to an agreement on how to move forward. They are both committed to the relationship and are not insecure about who they are as individuals.

Unfortunately with the modern mixing and overlapping of emotions meanings. Modern jealousy could rather be envy (wanting something that someone else has) or low self-esteem. Another important incentive is a fear of desertion.

However, jealousy is a normal, adaptive emotion created to protect significant connections. Feeling jealous may indicate the importance of a connection or that two individuals are becoming more apart.

If you or your relationship are struggling with jealousy. You are welcome to book a counselling session.

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